first time with out him

so I'm moving soon and I went with my familys that's 3 and half hours away so I can do paper work for my apartment , he didn't wanna come because it was to crowded, he said he would text me well I have been here for 3 days and I'm leaving tomorrow but he said he would text me but he hasn't talk to me much in the 3 day. like I wanna talk to him because I miss him, he always smoking pot and all I ask was for him to make time for me but he talks for a bit, but I get he gets to stoned some times and for gets but this is all the time and I don't know what to do