I’m 19 and I’ve been dating my 21 year old boyfriend for about 8 months. I asked him about our future and where he sees me in his life. He said that he didn’t know. Should I be worried?

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Pump the breaks dude! That’s a big question! Just be in the moment and enjoy your relationship!!

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I think 8 months is a fair amount of time to ask where you’re at and if it’s serious. He doesn’t need to lay a life plan out for you, but if he can’t simply say, I see/want you in my future, I think you may deserve a little more.

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I think life is confusing at that age and I wouldn’t be worried necessarily. Wait a bit longer and make your intentions clear and if his aren’t the same then you’re going different ways.

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Thats A Huge Question. Plus You Guys Havent Been Dating Not Even Over A Year. Enjoy The Time You Guys Have Now

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You to are young. Just enjoy the time.

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I would say it's an ok question for an older couple, bc as you get older you know what you want and aren't looking to waste time with someone not on the same page. But you guys are very young, so I agree with what others are saying. Just take it slow and enjoy, maybe bring it up again at a later point in your relationship.

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It’s only been 8 months and you both are so young. I’m not sure what exactly you want his response to be? Are you just looking to know that he loves you and wants to continue to grow the relationship or are you saying you want him to propose? I think as long as your both happy now and enjoy being together, that should be enough for now.

I’m 19 and I’ve been dating my 21 year old boyfriend for about 8 months. I asked him about our future and where he sees me in his life. He said that he didn’t know. Should I be worried?

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