Some back story first... my fiancé and I have been together going on 3 years, have a 1 year old son together, and put everything we make into a joint account. We made each other promises not to spend money without letting each other know what we’re spending the money on.

I’m am really ticked off at my fiancé at the moment.... last night he texted me from work asking if I mind if he goes out after he gets off work to get a few drinks and relax. I asked him where he wanted to go and if he was going out with co workers or something, told me that he’s going by himself and told me to pick the place he goes. I told him a place close to our house that has good drinks and food so that he’s close by home when he leaves there. This was all at around 8pm last night. Fast forward to midnight, still not home and not answering his phone, I look at our account to see that he has pulled money out of an atm at a strip club! Again tried to call him, no answer. I finally get a hold of him at 12:30am to him saying I’m on my way home, I asked where he was, he says I changed my mind and went to the strip club instead. I’m furious, one that he couldn’t have the courtesy of calling me when he changed his mind to tell me that he was going to a strip club instead and two because he spent what was going to be all of our grocery money on a few drinks and a fucking lap dance!!! Wouldn’t you be furious too? I’m trying to get it through his head that when you’re in a relationship with someone, it is a common courtesy to let the other person know what you’re going to be doing. One, in case something happens to the other person and two, because we have promised each other to do so.

Sorry about the long post, I needed to vent at someone other than my fiancé who doesn’t understand why I’m so mad.

And if you’re going to bash, I don’t need to hear it.