Would you all consider me obese? 🙇🏼‍♀️HELPPPP

This is in no way fishing for compliments. I used to be very small and have put on 40 lbs. I’m asking because a lot of times I don’t feel big but many people make comments about my weight. For example my uncle shot a nerf gun at me and I said “that didn’t even hurt” and his response was “it’s because of all that cushion you put on” I deff don’t consider myself skinny but people make me feel like I’m whale. It makes me feel like my eyes are defying me. Help and be brutally honest if you saw me in public would you thing I was a “big girl”? I would say I’m more chubs but what to you think?

Also any diet tips would be appreciated I have been eating clean and working out as of recently so I feel better about myself. Just asking so see if I’m crazy because I don’t feel huge like everyone makes me out to be.

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