I feel like I'm drowning

I'm not sure if this is the right spot to post or not.. I probably won't get any replies.. anyways, once upon a time I use to have a decent paying job that let me live comfortably with my ex where I didn't have much bills.. Fast forwards to now, I've stupidly taken out 4 loans, went for a lesser paying job with less than half the hrs to go back to school, have pets and a 1 yr old, a car. All these things I can't afford and I feel like I failed and am bringing everyone down with me. I did find the most amazing guy though.. But I don't know what to do. I can't afford rent and electric this month. I need to make a car payment before it gets repoed.. I need to afford gas and food.. How did I fuck up this much?