HELPP!!!! I have boring friends

Most kids my age go out partying and are having sweet 16's and everything but my friends are all boring. We don't go out partying. I only see them like once a month 🙄. Also all they do is follow each other. Nobody makes up their own mind. I also have this off thing where last year I made a lot of friends but since I didn't follow them in what they say and do they left and now they all go against me. I wanna go out and have fun and have a bf and drive like a normal teen at this age. Most kids I know that party are really bad kids (they'll do drugs and fight,etc) I want my group to be fun and happy not trouble makers. I'm trynna start a group but everybody fake so idk what to do