Ok first of all we recently introduced a vibrator into our sex life and I have to admit it’s fucking AMAZING! However, for whatever reason my boyfriend seems to have a hard time finding the right spot where it actually gets me off. I mean he has literally had it against the inside of my leg at some points and I’m like “uh not even close dude”. I feel so bad telling him “wrong spot. Not there. Move it here. Etc.” We have been together going on 8 years and it drives me crazy when he gets frustrated that it’s taking me so long to orgasm yet it’s HIS fault for not placing it where it works lol. Does anyone else’s man seem to struggle like this?