venting

I'm sooo pissed right now. so this might sound like a lot of rambling. My husband asked a question on if the credit cards were payed on time (on the 12th). I was honest and told him I'm paying them tomorrow (as I was getting out of the car to go to into the grocery store) he instantly got pissed. I went into the store and when i was done i came out. i asked if he was mad. He totally went off on me. Said "i took a fucking day off of work for you for your surgery and brought you to MA yesterday all fucking day (for my aunt's funeral), you never took a day off of work for any of my surgeries . You're a fucking cunt". I opened the door to the SUV to get out as he was backing up. He says " I don't care if you get out fucking cunt"I walked home, in the dark after having surgery 4 days ago. So I completely forgot to pay them last week bc I was pretty stressed about my Aunt passing away, having surgery on Friday and getting all my planning done for my sub to teach my class. I totally understand that I forgot. my plan is to call to pay tomorrow but also explain to them why it's late and see if they will forgive it being late so it doesn't effect his credit. ( as of right now it hasn't shown up). But legit I'm pissed bc no matter what the situation (unless I'm cheating) should anyone ever talk to me that way. He is just worried about his damn credit and not about me. Thank you for listening rant over.