Why Female OB GYNS treat you like crap!

I wish I could skip all those Pap smears for the rest of my life until I die. This is the most uncomfortable and painful way to have annual checkups. Every single time I have to go and get one even with female ob gyns I cried, not only because they make me feel like crap but also because they perform the exams not gentle at all...

Does anyone know a good doctor that is old school instead of the crappy ones I got? Around DFW area preferably. Thanks😢😢😢#femaleobgynssuck