Mental health

Sarah

BACKSTORY: my boyfriends mom used to be a hardcore drug so he would have to take care of his younger step brother as a child..

eventually his mom got arrested and went to prison for 5 years which split the boys up (his brother at his grandmas and my bf at his real dads)

Throughout the years his dad cheated on multiple ex wives, was a drunk and played favorite with his children (my bf was the one they didn’t care much about because his dad worried more about the kids he had with one of his wives at the time)

He had a very rough childhood...

Last year he decided to move to tulsa OK, from OKC because a friend needed a roommate.. he didn’t have a car so he bought his friends car and came to live here..

By the time I met him his roommate Months later randomly disappeared without telling him where he went and took the car..and my bf had to pay all the bills alone

He couldn’t afford it so his dad helped him by moving in and paying half...

His dad then bummed off of him and quit his job for no reason so my boyfriend was paying for him, his dad and his dads girlfriend to live there.....he broke it off by giving his dad a month then I helped my bf get into an apartment

His dad hates him now...

Now his mom is living with him because she doesnt have a home or a job.she left her youngest sons with some random care givers because she didn’t want to deal with him anymore .(she randomly quit her job) but she can afford to go to Kansas every week and not help him pay for the bills...

NOW:

Right now his brother who he took care of has been living in texas for years and he hasn’t seen him in a long time. His brothers care giver decided to drive him all the way to OK. So they could see each other.. my bf drove half way and picked up his brother lastnight.

Anyways today we were gonna meet up and have dinner so I could meet his brother...BUT...his mom decided to change plans and she took him to Kansas.. his brother wanted to go spend time with us so bad his mom shortened her trip to Kansas and took him back to the apartment...

we wanted his mom to go so we could all spend time together but she threw a fit and decided to stay in...

so we picked up his brother and I got to meet him and we got to have dinner...

Later tonight my boyfriend pulled me aside from his brother and told me he wanted to die... he said Life would be better without him...

I am so heartbroken to hear that from the one I love the most... he has gone through so much and it puts heaviness on his heart and I just want it to be better... I dont know what to do...

I’m very concerned.