My bf told me I've been dry lately down there

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Basically me and my boyfriend been knowing each other for YEARS. as kids he use to always finger me and it's always was wet because we had a connection. He went to jail for a year and we had sex in there and it was amazing I was soo wet. Because he took the time to make me comfortable and I felt so safe which is weird. Since he got out he's been rushing sex skipping the foreplay and basically the intimacy and I'm feeling that the emotional connected isn't there that I strive for in sex because he doesn't like being clingy but being clingy is what makes me so wet. So, I've been unsatisfied emotionally and physically and he picked up on it. Him telling me that made me feel so low but I told him straight up for a year I've been getting myself off while you been in jail , I need YOU to satisfy me emotionally which I'll get from foreplay.

You guys Is something wrong with me? Cause my shit is rarely dry but with him it is cause he's the only one who only wants me to give him foreplay then have sex but skip my needs.

UPDATE AS OF 11/27

UPDATE: me and him talked about it.. he said he didn't mean that our sex was dry but when he sometimes try to initiate it I tell him to not touch the kitty yet ! Which sometimes he feels weird about it. But he said our sex is the best and told me that he'll do more foreplay because he knows I need just that extra attention because I am sensual which he isn't . He said but sometimes I need to stop being shy and be more confident and take the lead sometimes but he said in time he'll help me build my confidence ( he's the first intimate relationship I've been in). And right now it's just a learning experience... and he said he apologizes if he made me feel that I wasn't good enough for foreplay it's just that he's been in jail for a long time and lost his touch... plus he gets too excited and want to "feel me" then he talked about how he hates that he's a quickie with me cause it never happened to him before 😂😂😂. So he's just frustrated too and know I'm not fully satisfied which makes him feel less of a man.