Parent Probs?

Question

Do you think it’s a bad thing if at 19 I’m afraid to talk to my parents about anything because I know they’ll judge me or hurt me emotionally for talking about anything that doesn’t go their way?
Like I should be comfortable and shouldn’t be afraid opening up to them but I am because of past times. Is that a bad thing? Or is that just me overthinking And overreacting about all this.

Answer

just because they're your parents doesn't mean they're your friends. if your parents didnt raise you in an environment where you felt safe disclosing everything to them, then thats just what happens. i hate telling my mom anything honestly. she has consistently displayed an inability and often complete lack of desire to understand me and my siblings. if something goes against what she thinks is right, she wont hear it. she just starts yelling and is extremely defensive. just because someone has kids doesnt mean that they are going to be perfect parents. when youre young, youre brainwashed into thinking that they just want the best for you, but it doesnt mean they actually can do that. it doesnt mean they dont love you or you dont love them. they just arent good communicators.

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To this day I can’t tell my parents anything of my personal life because I feel that if i talk to them seeking positive or constructive advice they’ll just put me down and not help in anything. I’m 19 as well and there so much they don’t know and I wish I could tell them without them judging me or saying rude little comments 😔😞 it’s hard wanting to talk to the two people you would think will give you positivity and strength and out of fear just keep it to your self...  I’ve come to the point where I’m actually ok with not telling them anything and just figuring things out my self or just talk to my close friends ans bf.

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It’s not good but this is the case for more people than you think. I’m 22 and this is the case for me 😂if I’m not following the Bible then they don’t wanna hear it. 🤷🏾‍♀️and I’m wrong.

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