Anxiety/homesick

I'm staying the night at a family members tonight and I can't sleep because I miss my own bed. And I'm afraid I might have let my cat out when I was leaving my apartment because I had the door open for a minute, actually under a minute, when I wasn't looking and never checked on her before I left. My anxiety is yelling "she got out!!" 😩 My boyfriend won't get to our apartment till 6am from his job so now I have to wait to call him to ask if the cat is ok lol. And I'm upset I won't even get to see my boyfriend tomorrow. He can't come to our Thanksgiving because he's working. Ugh. I'm such a mess right now.