Older bf loses erection

Sarah

Ladies, I need input. So I'm 33, my boyfriend is 60.

It seems to me that he has trouble getting and/ or keeping an erection.

Like he needs a lot of stimulation and loses his hard so fast, any distractions, etc. it really bothers me, like it's my fault. My ex (39) was like a steel rod, ready instantly all the time-we never had this happen. So from hot sex to limp dick?!