TMI anal bleeding

Ok. Tonight is the 2nd night that my butthole is bleeding. Like bright red and a pretty good bit. I don’t have to wipe to get the toilet paper like 50% bloody. I just have to like dab it and that happens.

-no anal play

-no blood in my stool

I have suspected I have a hemorrhoid but I looked and I don’t see anything down there.

What do y’all think?? My husband wants me to go to the dr but I really don’t want to.