baby eating what you eat?

Alena

for the mom's who feed their babies what they eat how do you do it? my son is 9 months old and I wanted to do blw from 6 months but I was pressured by everyone in my family who feels entitled to do jar purees. I even wanted to make his purees myself after I gave up on blw option but again I'm pressured to buy his food. anyway enough with that rant. so I would like to start just giving my son what's on my plate because he screams for 3 jars of food and I rather him not eat too much of the processed food (nothing against it, just what I feel is best for my kid). how do you give your baby what you eat? what if the food is too tough to chew do you cook it longer? do you give cut up pieces of meat and veggies? and how big to cut them? or do you puree what ever you eat? I'm so confused lol nobody in my family underdstands its healthier to not give them jar food they thik jar food os healthier. im still gonna give my son some jar stuff like if im gonna be out or somthing but i prefer what i make over that stuff when home. anyway I want to start taking my son's life back from everyone who thinks they can intervene it's been too long and I'm gonna finally do what I want to do with my son starting with his eating. Thank you everyone for your advice ! I will definitely try all your suggestions my son is an excellent eater lol the only thing I have given him that isn't pureed is a whole banana, puffs, and teething wafers he's great at chewing.