Stopping birth control

Hi ladies, my hubby and I decided to ttc end of Oct. I took my last pill on 10/25. My period ended up lasting longer that way. I have had a heck of a few weeks. Bloating, cramping, nauseated from time to time and oh my God boob pain. I even had a few days of just my nipples killing me. Glow projected af on 11/19 but still no other signs of her showing. I know that I'm not prego so I of course still wasted 5 tests this week. Have any of you been through this torture? How long did af take to return for you? How long after your last pill did you conceive?