Confused

Okay I’ve been talking to this guy when we hang out he’s overly affectionate always holding and kissing me which I️ love so so last week he fingered me and ate me out because I️ didn’t want like actually sex yet and I️ jacked him off but after that he got rude I️ asked him to take me on a date etc you know cute romantic shit and he basically laughed and said he don’t want a relationship so I️ was in my feelings and said fine hit me up next time you wanna have fun so he said okay now what’s crazy about that is I️ like him and possibly want a relationship option but im Ali talking to another guy who sweet and respectful but he’s shy so I️ guess I’m asking for advice should I️ cute the jerk off and focus on the other guy cause I️ really like him as well