Is it bad to lose virginity at 14 if you’re with someone you love?

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Having sex at 14 is incredibly young and often times looked down upon because you're a child. The responsibilities that come with sex and the consequences are so much bigger than a child should be faced to deal with. Also, at such a young age, your idea of what love is can be mistaken for other feelings. It's not bad...but it's not responsible or smart.

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Personal experience, I lost mine at 15. I am now 18, three years later and regret it. I regret it mainly because I was blinded by what I thought was love, he wasn't the love of my life. I was too young, he was too young. (We had a pregnancy scare at 15! And I went on birth control soon after because the condom broke.) You have to think about the possible outcome with having sex: The chance of becoming pregnant, should you be having sex if you can't afford a child? Use protection, but condoms can break especially if not put on correctly. Consider birth control and also consider the possible std you could contract. If you don't know what an std is, you most certainly shouldn't be having sex but definitely educate yourself on the subject. The man I'm with now treats me wonderfully and is loving, someone I wish I would've waited for. I told myself at 15 I wouldn't regret it, but it really is a beautiful moment to have with someone who shares a strong emotional connection. You're going through puberty, your hormones are making you question if you're ready or not but it's the actual question you should take into consideration. Are you truly ready? Dont rush into it, you've got many years ahead of you.

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I doubt you're even in love at 14.

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As long as consent is received on both sides, proper protection is used and you know what you’re doing, as well as the age difference. If a 14 yr old has sex with another 14 yr old and the conditions above are applied then it’s chill. But if none of those things apply, or it’s a 14 with someone 17+ than its not ok.

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Oh shoot I accidentally hit no, but I meant yes. 14 is waayyy too young. At that age you’re prone to be taken advantage of and hurt, and i mean, when I was 14 i had no real idea of what love felt like, just what i thought it was—which was wrong.

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If you love them show them

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i accidentally pressed no but i meant yes. you should wait till you are with the one you plan to marry and you don’t know who that is yet at 14.

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No, no matter what anyone says it’s not wrong. They don’t have to agree with your decisions but it’s not wrong. Yes you’re young but that’s fine as long as you’re responsible and you know the risks your taking. (Teen pregnancy’s, STD’s and such)

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I️ promise you’re not in love and you won’t know realize it until you actually are. I️m only 16 but I️ can tell a difference in how much I️ care and appreciate my current boyfriend versus ones before him.. I️ would do anything for him and I️ feel he would for me. He’s cried over how much he loves me and I️ did like a month after he did.. I️ would wait until your more secure in your love if you know what I️ mean

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okay so I see the poles and most people are saying it's bad but I say that when you think your ready that's when you should do it and if you feel ready now then go ahead if you are ready

Is it bad to lose virginity at 14 if you’re with someone you love?

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