help.. i don't wanna seem crazy or pushy


I'm a step mom, but sadly he is 14 and I only seen him one time when he was 5. He is wanting to start seeing his dad, my husband, and added me on FB. Me and his dad have two and a baby on the way. I want to be a good step mom but I'm almost nervous I will scare him lol. Like I wanted to post about how much I love my kids and tag him, but he doesn't even know me yet, so I just didn't post anything. Help. I want us to all be comfortable as a family.