Is anyone else having the issue of being this far along and still breech?

I’m at the doctor for NSTs twice a week and every time I see the nurse or the regular doctor they make me feel like somehow it is my fault that the baby is still breech. I have literally done enough cat/ cows that I could start mooing in my sleep, I’ve tried all the spinning babies, forward inversion, laying upside down, eating pineapples, ice pack on the top of my belly and heat by the bottom, and I’ve even done some of these things at the same time! We went in on Monday and tried ECV to no success and still I get crap about her being breech. Please tell me I’m not the only mama with a crazy stubborn child? Because at this point I’m having my daughter December 6th and I feel like a pretty crappy parent at this point :(