Alright, so I just wanted to maybe share with you ladies my thought process this morning after my 4th VVVFL in as many days

I am 12-13 DPO (I didn't track this month) and have been getting VFLs since Friday! FRIDAY!! I had hoped they were getting slightly darker and I had my fingers crossed but I had to face reality this morning that maybe they weren't.

..... AND THATS OKAY. Everyone's body, pregnancy, and baby is different! I'm on here knowing my lines "should be" this and "by now" they "should be" that. I'm sitting here staring at all my tests since Friday feeling like shit about myself, blaming MYSELF because my lines aren't doing what they "should be" doing!

NEWS FLASH ladies, we need to stop comparing ourselves to other women! Just because one lady gets a strong BFP at 12 DPO doesn't mean someone else has to or else they aren't pregnant. I know personally, I am SO HARD on myself. It is out of our control!!

God's timing is perfect. So keep your chin up! WE ARENT OUT TILL AF SHOWS! Right!? So please be encouraged by this 👏🏼 just because one person out of 10 doesn't see your VFL, doesn't mean it's not there! We know our bodies so well and let's be honest, I know my camera has a hard time picking up VFLs if the lighting isn't perfect. So if you see it in person, it's probably there!

So thank you ladies for being apart of my pep talk to myself 😂 GOD IS GOOD and I am thankful for you ladies and all your wisdom 👏🏼