I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and he's getting to that age where all of our friends are married or have kids. He has had baby fever for the past 3 weeks like crazy saying he wants a baby so bad. But he and I don't live together and we are not married, which are 2 things I want before I want kids. I feel like he just wants a baby more than he wants to create a family with me. He says we don't need to get married first and I feel like he's just using me to be a father. Is this silly or a legitimate concern? I don't want to be a single mother, ever and I want more commitment from him before I'm ready to have kids. Any advice is appreciated.