How long should you be in a relationship before you have sex?

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My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a month and a half now. We’ve talked about sex. We’ve done the sexting flirty stuff. He says he’s fine with waiting until I feel ready. Yesterday we were talking and he said, “It’s been almost two months now, do you want to have sex?” It kind of caught me off guard. I told him, I wanted to wait a little longer. But how long should you wait before you have sex while in a relationship?

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For me, it can be anytime after I know we’re monogamous.

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I've had sex on the first date, I've had sex without ever going on a date, I've had sex after waiting a full month of going on dates, I've had sex after 6 months of going on dates, I've had sex after waiting a year of dates. It's not really about the time frame. It's about what's right for you and that particular relationship. If you're ready, go for it. If you're not, then wait.

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whenever you're ready!

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Just wait it will happen when it’s right
And when you feel comfortable 
My boyfriend was a virgin when I met him and wanted to wait till he met the girl he felt he would marry and the girl he would tell his parents about... which was fine with me I didn’t ask him when are we going to have sex or anything 
Then he came round my house one day and we were just cuddling like usual and it happened naturally

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Wait

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There isn’t a time limit or a specific time frame for having sex, nor should there be! Wait until you feel comfortable! Don’t rush into something you don’t want and regret it later.

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There's no time frame, wait till you feel like it's the right time. Don't let him push you into anything xx

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Whenever you are both comfortable with it!

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Doesnt matter. I slept with my husband on our 3rd date. I made a boyfriend in high school wait 3 months and he dumped me 6 days later

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Whenever you’re ready to have it but my best guess is to wait it out

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