need help....

Lucky • Antonio James 6lbz 8 oz 10.17.15 Joshua Michael 8lbs 6oz 08.05.18 both at 38 weeks 5 days. My children are my ♡♡♡♡ Princess Zarya 5.3.21

my son is 2, amazing little boy sweeting thing in the world. when my boyfriend(stepdad basically) is around, but my son doesnt listen to me AT ALL. He will Not nap for me, barley likes what i make him to eat. but he listens to my bf and everything else. how do i get him to listen to me, he doesnt speak yet just baby gibberish. i could use some friendly adivce