Does your Husband/SO friends send pictures of random girls, they're talking to,to his phone? And do you find it disrespectful?

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So my Husband just said to me look at this girl so and so is talking to. "She's super pretty right? And look at her body!" I was kind of shocked that he had an actual picture of her in his phone. Like he was zoomed in and everything! And his friend wasn't in the picture of the girl so I'm like why do you have her picture? He's like he send me pics of girls all the time. Like it was no big deal. ***His friend knows we're married. He was at our wedding*** I'm just like that's disrespectful. So I said yea she's pretty, you can delete the pic now. But I kind of said it aggressively while approaching him like I was about to smack the **** out of him lol. He called me weird and said it's just something guys do. But I don't know. I find it very disrespectful and almost texted his friend. What do you ladies think? Am I overprotective or tripping?

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Nope. Not something guys do. Red flag. If my husband's friends were doing that I would tell him he NEEDS to address it and tell them to stop. But if he was fine & accepting them? I'd be so upset and hurt. That's not "something guys do." It's disrespectful to your marriage & to the other girl.

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I’d throat punch that bitch

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I find that extremely disrespectful. my husband doesn't get pictures of girls from his friends. he knows if he saved pictures of other girls I would have a problem with it. I think he would find it weird that his friends would send pictures of other girls to him.

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My SO's best friend sends him pics of girls he takes home from the bar. I'm pretty sure he thinks he's making my SO jealous but it doesn't work. He'll show me them sometimes and I just laugh. I don't feel disrespected by it it.

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Your absolutely right! His friend shouldn’t be sending him that bs. And he shouldn’t have showed it to you in the way he did. Be firm and demand respect. Tell him that it’s ok then if your friends send you pics of sexy men they date! 😆

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He would never, if he did I’d slap him.

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I think it’s ok if it’s like a one time thing but I wouldn’t like that. Mainly bc it would make me wonder if his friends are sharing a picture is your husband sharing photos of you? Like that would really bother me

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Uh? No. That's not just something guys do. That's something little teenage boys do. Once a man is grown up enough to get married he should be grown up enough to stop the childish shit. This is so disrespectful to you and your marriage. It wouldn't fly with me. My husband would no longer be friends with someone who sends him shit like that and he wouldn't be on my good side for a good while. I don't know what is up with men these day, idk if it's all the excuses they get to be sum or what but goodness someone needs to fix it.

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My SO knows how disrespected I would feel, and as he would if my girls were sending me pictures of men like that. It’s a no go zone 💯.

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Meant to hit no. He’d throw a fit .

Does your Husband/SO friends send pictures of random girls, they're talking to,to his phone? And do you find it disrespectful?

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