my husband and I lost a baby at 9w4d. we were newlyweds and a month later found out we were expecting. we were devastated when the midwife said theres no heartbeat. I lost a lot of blood during miscarriage, nearly 45%. I became anemic. im better now but children are my whole world. all ive ever wanted was to be a wife and a mother. since july we have been not trying but not preventing... he doesnt know but ive been trying. (you know, legs in the air after sex while he goes to wash up) no luck. ive been wanting this so bad. crying at night. crying when he's not home. crying when he is home. im so broken. I wanted to know whats the average time most women concieve after a miscarriage.