Today I am 7wks & 4days.

First Time Mommy

Okay so I went for my Very first OB Appointment on Thursday November 30th (7wks&2days). I went in there with high hopes because First, 6 days before I was at the ER & they gave me good news & I heard the babies heartbeats but still didn't see them. But she told me I could be 2weeks behind schedule so still to early to see them. I have been bleeding some (pink brown red an it repeats itself) but No Clots None At All No Pain & No Cramps (On One Side or The Other). But they did just a regular UltraSound and well they didn't see anything or hear the heartbeats not In my Tubes, In My Uterus, or Outside of My Uterus. He saw NOTHING, but my BETA Levels are 11,973 (6days before they were 3,781). I know All Pregnancy are different and some people don't see their baby or babies until 10 or 11 weeks some even later. Well when he called my SO & I into his office to talk he said that he "THINKS" I am either Miscarrying or he "THINKS" I have an Ectopic Pregnancy. He wasn't & isn't sure that's what it is. So he told me he wanted to do a D&C; the very next day on that Friday December 1st. Well I didn't go to it because he Just isn't sure. So I set up a 2nd Opinion dr for December 8th 2017. Please can someone tell me I made the right choice. I feel like I did and so does my SO, Mom, & MIL. I havr serioisly been on again off again Crying since I left his office.