so me and my husband are planing on having a baby and well we're exited about it. but when it comes to my parents and his parents it's a bit of a different story. So my parents I don't have a relationships with but they seem to think I want them involved in me having a baby, which i don't, but because they are controlling they well try and take control, so when i tell them we are pregnet with out them thinkung its a green card to my life, but not sure how to tell them with out hurting them but also not making them think they are involved. my in laws on the other hand are ass holes and would rather us wait till we're 30 to start having kids so i need help telling them that we're having a kid and they can just go fuck it, in a nice way. So yeah any suggestions on baby Announcement to two horrible parents.?