Going insane...

Ok so, I'm 14 DPO today... I've been feeling weird on and off, took a test at 12 DPO, got a negative... my bbt is still elevated. Period was due according to Glow on the 3rd, they've moved it back to the 5th.... my period is rarely late... my husband just left on a week long work trip, and I'm gonna go insane. I know most women test themselves and then surprise their partners... I really want him to be there when/if I test and get a negative or positive. Not even sure what I'm saying or asking.. just have to talk about it I guess 😒