My mom wont do anything with me.(im 27)

Alycia

my moms brother passed away this past year and since then ANYTHING i invite my mom to she declines, going to the store she says no, invited her to a show she says no. i just dont know what to do, im 27 and married and just want to spend some time with my mom..the only way i see her is if i go to her house...i get that shes sad but she is losing out on time with her daughter who is still in her life...any advice??