Is he manipulating me?

We’ve been together for the last 2 years. He graduates next semester and I go back home to take online classes. He wants me to move in with him when he gets his own apartment. He also wants to own a cat with me bc I love cats. I love him but he really really pisses me off all the time. I rarely want sex like I don’t really ever get horny.. What happens is he arouses me when I don’t want to do it but then my body reacts in the way where I do. Then he expects me to pleasure him but I don’t want to because I myself didn’t want to do it in the first place. He also says he will do things like wake up early and do his hw but he ignored his alarm and woke up 15 mins before class. he gets mad if I don’t shower with him but I don’t bc it will waste his time and he freaks out if I’m not ready but it’s his fault for not waking up in time and giving himself enough time to get ready. He also does projects the day before they’re due literally staying up all night. He wants me to help him with them but I need freaking sleep!! He wines if I don’t help him. He also fake cries if I tell him I’m going to study instead of sit with him while he has drop in tutoring hours. I yell at him if he just sits on his ass all day playing Xbox. He took me out to a restaurant in town that I wanted to go to but he said he hated it. Whenever I do something I want to do with him, he complains. He does cuddle with me but he also is like “kissy!!” And wants me to kiss him and I say no bc I just simply don’t. He’s annoying like that and he also brings up stupid lines from inappropriate shows like South Park and that shit is not funny to me! It’s stupid and he’s like LOOK LOOK LOOK while it’s on and I’m listening to music with my headphones in and he doesn’t stop saying that until i actually look and get pisses off bc that show and the others he watches is so stupid. He keeps telling me he’ll buy me a cat and when we live to together blah blah blah but I think he’s so annoying. Like he’s clingy but he said once I go back home to take online classes if we break up he would still want to be fuck buddies and that pissed me off. I feel shitty for not necessarily wanting to cheat on him but start talking to other guys over break because I feel like I’m sick of him.. not saying I’ll do that but I just might.. 😫🙃