So my partner has just rung me and said he’s been asked to work December 16th... the date of our gender scan 😓 I told him it was okay and that he should accept it as we are saving ridiculously to buy a house and working is the only way we’re going to be able to get there. So my Mumma is coming with me now but our plan was to find out during the scan. Should I get the technician to write it down for us so we can share the moment together? Or should I surprise him with pink or blue balloons and streamers and all the fun stuff? I’m so down about this situation but I am definitely not mad at my partner I just want this moment to be special.