So how would you feel you wake up and you find lotion on the bed table and dirty crunchy underwear (you know what I mean) in the floor in the same bed room you was sleeping in but at the other end of the room on another bed? ( theirs my big bed and then two twins at the other end of the bed room, no one sleeps omg he two little ones just needed somewhere to set them for now.)

Do in other words how do you feel about your husband jacking off and then you find out about it like this. Is it a big deal or no? Help please!