This is a rant.

Nothing breaks my heart more than seeing my boyfriend be robbed of his own son.

His ex is supposed to have primary custody. But she’s not capable of raising her own kid despite what was agreed upon them in their divorce, and honestly she replaced him with a new found boy toy boyfriend. Their son has been living with her sister since their divorce almost 6 months ago. Yet he pays $800/month in child support to the b word while he’s been there the entire time. He has no problem paying child support, but doesn’t want to pay her, he wants to pay her family, the people that’s actually taking care of their son.

I mean her family loves their son to death and wants nothing but the best for him. But that’s the problem. There’s nothing he can’t do with his son or can’t buy his son because they’ve already done it with him or they bought it for him already. The boy is 4 years old and has been on at least 5 cruises and more, plus Disney every time, camping, sporting events, first day of preschool, you name it they’ve done with him.

All he wants is his son and to be a father to his son. But they make it extremely hard to do that. And to make matters worse, when he does have his son, all his son asks for us to go back to his aunt. That breaks my heart even more.

This past weekend, we took him to buy a bike for Christmas, the only thing we could find that they haven’t done with him yet. I mean, a father should teach his son to ride a bike. But they literally brainwashed him. He said only big boys can ride bikes because that’s what his aunt told him. He wanted nothing to do with the bikes at all. And he threw a major meltdown at the store because he wanted a toy instead and that a bike was not a toy. I’ve never seen my boyfriend so disappointed before. It made me sad.

End rant.