Hey ladies!

So, my husband has been diagnosed with a varicocele. Unfortunately, he doesn't have insurance right now....so he's unable to see a urologist.

My questions:

1. Are there any home remedies that come to mind? (Anything that can help the flair ups?)

2. This varicocele has wrecked his libido, because he's in so much pain. I haven't had sex in months....I'm so horny, but he'll get hard for a few minutes, and then we'll have to stop because the increased blood flow hurts so much. Is there anything I can do to help him keep get and keep his errection?

3. Unfortunately, we probably won't be able to see the urologist for a while. So, I've been doing research online, and it looks like our chances of conceiving are very low. (Is this true? Has anyone gotten pregnant with an SO with an untreated varicocele)