Are you a Wife before a mother or a Mother before a wife ? (Please explain ☺️)

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I'm fluid. sometimes my daughter needs me more, sometimes my husband needs me more, and sometimes I need a break. I believe in balance.

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So when I first read this I thought it was asking if I became a wife before becoming pregnant lol but my opinion is that my future children will grow up and leave home and make families of their own. I hope my future will be filled with my kids coming over and calling but most likely they will grow up and make time for me and their father when they can. So my relationship with them will always be changing but the relationship I have with my husband will be constant. People say that your children will always be your children but your husband can easily become not your husband which sadly in todays world is true. But in my opinion and my husbands a true marriage, that is meant to stand. One that is constantly worked through and made a priority will not be thrown away at any cost. So personally I will always be a wife first, that doesn’t mean I won’t give all of my love and effort to motherhood when that time comes. It simply means I won’t let my marriage go to the back burner because I reproduced.

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Well I’m Christian so in Christianity (if you read the Bible) were taught to raise our kids up and when they marry they leave home. But our husbands are our companions , life partners however you wanna say it. I promised in marriage to stand by my husband through it all. Without him I’d have no kids and so I consider myself a wife before a mother. That’s just me though everyone’s different and has there own outlook I honestly don’t care about them this is just me and my family.

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I answered this wrong. I thought it was asking if I became a wife before I became a mother 😂 oops.

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Hubby & I️ have an understanding that our children are always first. We both feel our 4 children NEED us. He & I️ don’t NEED each other. & to be honest, I️ find it sexy that in any situation, my hubby would do whatever it takes to do for our children.. even if that meant continuing without me just so that our four little hearts are safe & loved.

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cuz sometimes i feel like a mother to both, my child AND my husband 😂

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My husband and I can’t be a united team if we don’t prioritize our marriage. Besides, I have 3 boys and they will learn how to treat women by watching how my husband treats me. That is why we are wife/husband BEFORE we are Mom and Dad.

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I misunderstood the question... I thought it was asking if you wanna be married before you have kids or alreadt have kids before marriage but then i looked at the comments.

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Sometimes the situation may demand the kid come first or your spouse and that’s fine. If my kids are happy but my husband isn’t I’d take time to care for him and vice versa

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You birthed something into this world it’s now dependent on you that man can go out and find another you can go out a find another but that child you have that’s yours ain’t a soul in the world can make another just like it

Are you a Wife before a mother or a Mother before a wife ? (Please explain ☺️)

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