no bfp...😢

so I was hoping to get a BFP this months... me and my husband have been having sex no condom nothing ... my period was suppose to come on the 11 .... but this it's been 3 weeks .. that I have had really bad. bloated .. mild cramps . on my left side .. sometimes right too lower tummy ... my boobs are sore I been craving alot alot of spicy stuff ..I have felt nausea always even in the middle of the night ...also TMI I havent been able to go poop right either ... it's a struggle lol sorry for the TMI ... THIS morning I woke up went to pee and wipped there was very pink light blood ... I was sad to see this ... knowing my period is here ..😢 the odd thing is that I have bleed since .... wanting a BFP .... guess have to keep trying and waiting ....