Does anyone else hate getting flaked on

So is it just me or does anyone else get pissed off when you make plans with your boyfriend and he flakes. This has happened multiple times! One I was super excited for but now I’m just going to go look at zoo lights with friends because he keeps flaking on me and then today there’s some parade of Christmas lights in my town and I asked him if he wanted to go and he was like sure I’m down and he lives a hour away I told him be at my house early cause they close down streets and it’s packed and he just texted me now saying he thinks it’s going to be stupid and doesn’t want to come. I don’t know about you guys but shit like this pisses me off like if you don’t wanna go just lmk and I’ll be cool with it but don’t tell me yes and then flake last minute