I Feel Pressured...
2 weeks ago I tried anal for the first time with my boyfriend. I didn’t really enjoy it, I was very lubricated and I did it just to try it and I know he’s been wanting to. The last time we had sex he was BEGGING for me to do anal, I repeatedly told him I didn’t enjoy it and I don’t want to. He continued to beg until I gave in and told him I will the next time we have sex.
I don’t know how to convince him I’m serious about not wanting to do it again. I felt uncomfortable the whole time and again, it wasn’t at all pleasurable. I enjoy just normal vaginal sex but he said he likes anal because he lasts longer and such.
I just feel pressured to satisfy his needs, even when I’m uncomfortable about it and don’t want to do it again. He tells me that he does what I like, so I should do what he likes. I just feel like it’s not the same.
I don’t know what to tell him. I need advice or something. Please.
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