Lately been feeling that there is no me anymore. I have one daughter who is 11 mo and a husband. My husband and I both work full time to keep up with our bill and debt repayments. Just the last few weeks it has dawned on me that I don't do anything for my self anymore... I'm spending a lot of days working over time as my vet clinic is very busy at the moment and you can't turn away sick patients, when I get home I sirens my time taking care of my little one and after she's in bed I pretty much get her stuff ready for the next day attempt to eat dinner and go to bed myself. I don't care what I look like any more, I've put oh on so much weight since I started work that I'm much heavier than I was when I gave birth nothing fits, I'm nearly popping the buttons on my work uniform. What can I do to help myself, I really hate the person I've become, pretty much only living because I love my family so much. Help me find me again.