It’s been years since my man has really took his time with me during sex. I havnt even received oral in more than a year and when I ask why he says he’d rather do it when I first get out of the shower....but even then he doesn’t 🤦🏼‍♀️ I want a vibrator so bad but last time I asked he said he’d feel offended....how can I break it to him that I NEED one? And do any other women have one even though your in a relationship?