My bf doesnt want to come to my graduation because he wants to work, should i be upset?

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Studied for 3 years, hes a builder, it'll take 4 hrs out of his work day to be at the ceremony

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I don’t exactly think going to work over a graduation ceremony is selfish. It doesn’t mean you’re not a priority. If he doesn’t want to ask for a day off, it could be that he’s just being professional about his job. In that case, it would be more selfish on your part to ask him to drop his job for you.
You two could always meet up later for dinner. Or on another day when he doesn’t have to work, you can celebrate.
I know that if I’m scheduled to work on my graduation day, I’ll probably go. I wouldn’t ask for the day off either.

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It’s like skipping out on his wedding!!! This is your journey and also his if he plans to marry you! He should celebrate this special accomplishment with you for sure! And even if he doesn’t show, clearly you can do bad all by yourself ... congrats on completing the first step to a better life babe! ❤️❤️

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Graduating from high school or college?  Sitting for hours in a crowded stadium and then sitting stuck in traffic before and after isn't for everyone. Graduation isn't important to everyone. Is it an overtime day or normal day? If hes trying to build a future with you, he might be thinking more of the financial gain the can contribute to the future.

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That’s super selfish! I even went to my boyfriend’s sisters graduation! And it was great!! He should definitely be there to support you!

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Ummm hell yeah I’d be upset 
Your husband is suppose to be your number one supporter this is a huge day for you I wouldn’t take that lightly

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I think it just shows support and that he is proud if he is there and it’s selfish that he is not going.

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high school, college, or whatever it is...i would be very upset. You knew the day far ahead of time. He should have planned on being there for you to show how much he supports your success.

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I would assume that means he doesn’t want to have a future together to be honest.

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are you graduating from college? if so, that's a pretty important milestone!!

My bf doesnt want to come to my graduation because he wants to work, should i be upset?

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