My husband has two children with his ex. One boy is 11 years and one girl is 10. And has one baby with me. She is 4 months now. The two children come to our home every second week.

Usually I put my back to make them comfortable and no threat from me. I clean the messy they left, wash their cloth and cook for them when my husband is busy outside. I never have any demands on them even I have a baby need be taken care.

Today my husband's daughter holds 10 years birthday party after school at our home. Before she and her friends come, I helped my husband to set the table, clean the kitchen. Then my husband went to pick up her and her 13 friends. My baby was tired, dissatisfy and annoyed. I went to the bed to make her sleep. She was almost falling into sleep. Then they came back. My husband came to my bedroom and insisted to ask me and my babies go out. He believed that my baby wouldn't fall into sleep because there is party outside. I know he wanted us to go out because his daughter thinks my baby is funny to show in front of her friends. I agreed him and wake my baby up and went out then his daughter came up and took my baby from me. She carried my baby to show around around 1 minutes then gave her to her father. I stayed at the living room because my baby was waking up anyway. It was fucking cold and some outside.

I carried my baby and saw his daughter opened gifts from her friends. I never expected that at this time his daughter said to me"Zhongli maybe you should go to bed with your baby." in front of all the people. I didn't response her and then she went to her father and said to her father. Then this fucking guy, my husband came to me and my baby and said to me " lets leave her. "

I kept calm down and didn't say anything, pretend to know nothing and took my baby with me to our bedroom and locked the door. He tired to come in several times and I didn't response. I am trying to find solution to let this go. Or go to divorce to get away from them. I am enough of his daughter treating my baby just like a doll. I am so sad they can disrespect me as I deserve it.

Please give me any suggestions! Am I overreacted?