TTC Club

Hey glow family,

I was wondering if there are any brave women out there that could help me explain some of the emotions and stressors that go along with trying to conceive. I am trying to explain to my husband that getting negative tests and seeing AF every month sometimes makes me feel down. We are moving on to month 5 with TTC. He feels as if I shouldn’t be upset when I get the negatives, that I shouldn’t worry, that I should be totally free flowing with this. And overall I am. I track my cycle, check CM, and cervical position but that’s it. I don’t do bbt, OPKs, or use preseed because I don’t want to make him feel like I’m putting too much emphasis. I used to fill him in on my fertile days, but that started making him feel like I was using him only for his seed when that’s not the case. What I’m asking for you ladies is showing him I’m not alone in getting upset and that other husbands may feel the way he does. Is there anyone out there that can help me out?