So, I’ve been talking to this guy for a couple months now and we’re sleeping together but neither of us are really looking for a relationship. If I were to define us it’d be somewhere between friends with benefits and a relationship, which confuses me sometimes. There’s times it seems like it could develop into more than sex and just hanging out, and then there are times it seems like he couldn’t be less interested in me or has no interest in being with whether it’s sexual, as a friend, or more than that. He was in a relationship for five years, she cheated on him multiple times but he was willing to work through it and one day she just up and left and decided she didn’t want to be with him any more. So they broke up three years ago. But back in February/March she messaged him and they started talking again, they were both seeing other people and ended up breaking up with their significant others to explore things with each other and she left him again. So she’s really done a number on him. Am I wasting my time by thinking it could develop into more than sex?