So I’m in a great and healthy relationship. I love my SO dearly and I’m beyond happy.

Well... I’m a very emotionally and sexually open person, and I get fleeting crushes fairly easily. I’m also easily attracted to people, whether it be personality wise or physically, and most of the time it goes away. My SO knows this as he got the same thing back in high school.

Lately, I have like 3 I can’t shake off, all with close friends. They’re intense friend crushes. There are two guys and one girl. The guys both look alike and are typical douchey, emotionally-reserved men (hopeless swoon material) and the girl is in a relationship with a supreme fucken twat. I get the urge to show her how she deserves to be treated by a nice SO, and there’s just something so attractive about those guys that I absolutely can’t get outta my head.

I’m an adult, and this feels incredibly stupid, how do you shake really hardcore crushes you don’t even intend to act upon? My heart aches over this bc I feel so bad