so a week ago my daughters father and I split up. we had been together 5 years. our daughter turns 4 in a month.

we had so many plans around the holiday times that have been ruined.

do you think it is okay to still do stuff together with our daughter? or do you think it will be too confusing for her to see us together again for a few hours and then go our separate ways home?

(he does not have a drivers license) I feel kinda bad that he can't ever take her anywhere.

we were originally going to do Christmas at the zoo. and stuff like that. plus her birthday is coming up.