So long story short my boyfriend and his sister are in a feud. We are going on Monday to find out what we’re having. His sister was going to get the envelope and reveal it to us.. well now that they’re fighting that’s not happening. This is my second child his first. But it’s our rainbow baby so I want it to be special. I still want someone to reveal it to us but now idk who.. his mom is coming to the ultrasound with us so maybe her?? My family isn’t so supportive of this baby as they don’t like my boyfriend.. I was so excited for this but now I just don’t see the joy in it anymore.. what should we do?? Just find out ourselves right away or ask him mom to reveal to us?