So today the guy I've been talking to for about a month now was talking to me about hanging out because he's been wanting to hang out outside of school. I told him id like that as long as we were not accompanied by his cousin and her boyfriend. Every time he talks about going out he says that it would include them. I told him that I'm just not comfortable with that yet because we haven't been on an actual date yet and meeting new people gives me so much anxiety. I have issues with both depression and anxiety. He's aware of this. After him questioning me repeatedly about why I can't just hang out with his cousin and me repeatedly saying that it's too much pressure especially for the first time we hang out, he told me "a lot of people are good at this but you're not" and then proceeded to tell me that I need to learn to let things not affect me. He told me that I'm really bad at not worrying about my family's financial issues and that I stress too much about my grades. It just hurt me because I'm aware I worry a lot. It's what my anxiety does. But he basically lectured me about having so much anxiety when it's not something I can control. I ended up being so done with the lecturing that I walked away and ended up crying about it because I felt so overwhelmed with anger and stress